Strategies for when journaling feels like a chore
Do it before you do something pleasurable. (before eating, drinking, checking social media or watching a show, before or after meditating). This will help your brain to associate the practice with a reward.
Print out calendar pages for the next twelve months and mark off each day you journaled. Imagine what it will feel like to look at a year of marked-off dates and know that each of those days were accounted for.
Remember that the time it takes to write an entry can be as little as 30 seconds.
Strategies for dealing with concerns about privacy
To get started, you can write as though you know someone will read your journal. Eventually, you’ll find your comfort level.
You can always go back later and edit. You can add whatever you want or remove whatever you’re not comfortable with having in your journal.
Handwritten
You can cross out something that you're not totally comfortable with. You can tear out the page along the left margin, leaving a summary written on the margin.
On the back page or a separate piece of paper you can keep in the book, you can keep a log of the dates of entries that felt personal that you might want to revisit
Digital
For digital entries, you can create a bookmark for something you might want to edit. This will help you to find and revisit it see if you want to make changes.
For both handwritten and digital journaling
if you’re concerned that someone might read it, write as though you know they’ll read it. This might feel like an affected way of writing, but it will help you to feel safe as you build the habit of daily journaling. In time, you’ll get a sense of what feels safe to write.
The journal is a living document
Understanding your journal to be a living document allows you to
Journal retroactively which makes it easier to start your journal whenever you want it to start. Memory triggers can help you to remember what was happening during earlier times in your life. These triggers can be photos in your library, sent email or news headlines.
Remove or add content as needed. Content added to a handwritten entry can be written in a box drawn in empty areas on the page. It can be written in a different color ink or written on a separate piece of paper that can be attached to the page.
Allows for an element of safety for people concerned about privacy - you can write sensitive material knowing that you edit later if needed.
Having an imaginary audience
Cons
It might inhibit your expression or interfere with your processing.
It might make you feel like you’re writing with less honesty.
Pros
Looking at your experiences through the eyes of an audience can help you to see them objectively.
It can be useful if you’re writing for posterity.
It can make it more fun and encourage creativity
It might help you to develop your writing skill
Audience options
Your past self
Your future self
A family member or ancestor
A hero, guide or teacher
A favorite object
An imaginary random person you meet in a bar
Homework
Write an entry every day.
Find an entry from the past month that felt important that you feel comfortable sharing at the next session. If you don’t want to read the whole entry, you can also just summarize it or read an excerpt from it.
Go through your entries and make a list of the experiences that fit into the Gratitude/Accomplishment/Pride category..
Find a photo you’ve taken this year to use as a reference for a writing exercise. You won’t be sharing it and it can be of anything or anyone.
Extra Credit
Write an entry as a letter to someone (real, fictional, past, present, etc.).
If you are journaling digitally and have a printer:
Experiment with adding images
Print out a sample page with an image
Look into storage options